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                校內首期“新父母論壇”開講

                幫助學生家長加理性的方法與孩子溝通,更是為了讓學校教育與家庭教育達成共識、形成合力,我校10月29日(星期六)下午15:30會議室舉行了面向高中部學生家長的新父母論壇”第一期。主題為“親子溝通之——善于說’!

                本次活動得到了我校高一學生家長的積極響應和廣泛支持,可容納百余人的會議室座無虛席。

                 

                論壇由我校高中部主任教研處主任孫傳華主。孫主任有著近三十年的教育教學經驗,近年來更潛心于當代家庭教育及青少年心理健康研究,對當代青少年教育有著自己較為深刻的體會和比較獨到的見解。

                孫主任以“親子關系”作為演講的切入點,以簡明的語言就此次論壇主題的含義、意圖向各位家長作了簡單闡釋。接著,孫主任中、西方對“教育”一詞理解的差異出發概括了當今家庭教育中的兩種截然不同的教育方式,即激發-賞識教育和教化-養成教育進行了解讀孫主任結合當代教育的現狀告訴家長們,我們必須以平等的身份、欣賞的眼光、贊許肯定的態度,與孩子們開展更有效、更和諧地溝通。并強調,贊美、欣賞孩子們的優點,寬容他們的不足,永遠是教育堅定不移的原則。

                孫主任提到,教育的核心任務是促使人順利完成其個人化和社會化兩個過程良好的個人化是社會化的基礎,而良好的社會化是個體人格得以完善的前提條件。個人化和社會化的效果優劣,對于每一個人今后社會生活起著相當重要的作用。孫主任仔細分析了當代中國家庭教育中存在的一些誤區,以及在部分家庭中成長起來的孩子存在的心理缺陷和行為偏差。他告訴家長們,要清晰地認識到什么時候該對孩子嚴“不”,什么時候要對積極鼓勵和褒揚,即家長一定要明確對孩子說“不”的環境條件,不可隨意對其進行否定。

                把握好何時說“不”、何時欣賞在孩子家庭生活中起著關鍵的作用孩子行為已經開始或有較大可能危害到自己身心健康和安全時;在孩子的言行明顯違背社會公認道德規范、行為準則給他人和群體帶來傷害和損失時;當孩子懶惰、揮霍、不求上進等習慣漸現,以至于開始失去責任心時,作為家長應采取直接否定、拒絕的態度,讓孩子清晰地聽到一個強有力的“不

                孫主任還提到,當家長對孩子說“不”時,一定要有充分的說服力,公平地評判是首要前提對孩子的拒絕明確、具體,不可泛泛而談,更不能是個人情緒的宣泄;否定孩子一定要就事論事,否定的是行為本身,而非否定整體的人;要幫助孩子推導出一個違紀事件可能帶來的不良后果;讓孩子知道你對孩子良好未來的期望;要事先跟孩子一起,共同制定一些規則并嚴格執行之;要注意拒絕孩子時候的語氣以及周邊環境;要加強親子之間的溝通,以溝通來施加影響力……

                最后,孫主任說,不論是老師還是家長都要經常檢查自己的言行,做到以身作則,要經常學習,不斷提升自身的教育力,讓孩子在心理上對你產生足夠的尊重和接納感。只有這樣你才能取得批評的資格,才能使批評真正落到實處,達到理想的效果。

                 

                本次活動,得到與會家長的普遍好評。會場上,家長們時而會心而笑,時而認真筆記,均以較佳的狀態投入到活動之中。論壇結束后,仍有眾多家長就自己孩子的學習、生活、心理現狀及困惑,與孫主任進行較深入的交流

                由此可見,如何處理好“親子關系”是當代家長們共同面臨并亟需解決的問題。通過本期論壇,我們可以看出,我們的“新父母論壇”是必要的、及時的,也是有著重意義的。今后,我們仍會不斷總結經驗匯集各種教育資源,將這項活動進行下去。

                                                                                          (文/郭璐)

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